I should probably move my post day to Monday. There's a built in slot to write, whereas I'm apparently busier than I thought on Sundays?
I'm a little stressed these days, and not sure what to write about. So after googling "lolita blog topics" and finding this post by F Yeah Lolita, I'll try to tackle one or two ofthese questions whenever I don't have something to write about.
How about...3 things I wish I was told when I was a new Lolita.
1) The fashion guidelines are not as strict as people say they are. Even brands break the rules sometimes. And anyway, creativity and an eye for artistry are really important. A lot of things can be lolita if you try hard enough.
2) Someone having a different opinion or tastes from you does not make yours invalid! I can't stress this enough. If someone else says rectangular headdresses ugly and old fashioned, and you love the above headwear (guilty), then your opinion is the one that matters for your own wardrobe.
3) This one is specific to me (or other moon cis people). Yeah... the longing for lolita you felt was probably low-key social dysphoria. So go get that fashion, ok?
That went by fast. Should I catch up on my lolita/goth blog reading or do another question? I think I'll do one more.
5 pieces that every Lolita wardrobe should have, regardless of style
1) First of all, do you like dresses--whoops sorry, OPs, it's been too long--or skirts and blouses? Or JSKs? You should have at least one dress or skirt or jumperskirt. I was going to include a blouse but you can get a nice one literally anywhere including thrift stores.
2) A petticoat. This is sort of optional I would say (heresy, I know) but let's face it, you were probably drawn to lolita at least a little bit for the poof. Poof! Alternatively, you can layer other skirts under it. I mean, no one's going to see your under garments (unless you consent to it and I'm not shaming that certainly).
You know what's also optional? Bloomers. I personally love them because they are pretty and loose instead of tight, which is a godess-send for my sensory issues. But like I said, no one needs to know what you're wearing or not, underneath. If you're worried about people seeing things under that bell skirt, you can always go for shorts or tights or leggings or less of a poof. Poof!
3) (and 4 and 5...?) Oh look I have three more items to fill. Well...shoes maybe? Then again you can get suitable ones any where (my current faves for lolita and also the rare occasions I ballroom dance are from a thrift store) and really, my size ten (US women's) feet are not going to fit into shoes from Japan. Probably.
Now if you want proper boots, well, I sympathize with how hard those are to get. Although I guess that gets more into the goth side of things? Then again, my favorite boots are the lolita ones with the rounded toes, that lace up. Sigh. Someday.
Anyway, what you should do for your last three items is whatever you want. Get more OPs. Get accessories that make you feel like a magical princess no matter what you're wearing. Get those fabled lolita boots. Or use that money and get thee to a meetup!
See you next time, my dear Ballroom dancers! And Blogger, please stop selecting everything when I'm on mobile.
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